
Michelangelo said he didn’t create his sculptures. He believed the figure was already trapped inside the marble, and his only job was to chip away everything that wasn’t it. The statue was always there. He just revealed it. Relationship psychologists borrowed that idea and gave it a name. The Michelangelo Effect describes what happens when the people closest to […]

Let’s reframe. Picture one single hula hoop. The one you’re standing inside.
That’s your circle of control.